“According to Buddhism, the antidote for aggression is patience. Patience is not based on gritting our teeth and stubbornly waiting for the day when all this will somehow be over. It is more about softening our hard attitude and loosening our tight agenda whenever we notice them.”
“The real romantics know that stretchmarks are beauty marks, and that different shaped women fit into the different shapes of men souls, and that real romance is really sacrifice.”
“I am a very private person, yet I am an open book.
If you don’t ask…I won’t tell.”
“You don’t have to be pretty like her. You can be pretty like you.”
“perhaps most importantly, you need to acquire the skills of writing and speaking that make for candor, rigor, and clarity. You cannot think clearly if you cannot speak and write clearly.”
Might it be the case that the most fundamental way for Dasein to be as such is ‘I’ ?